2009-10-01, 01:04 AM
Friend zone sucks. If I could give an advice, I'd say you should weigh up and see for yourself whether or not it's worth it to choose option A or B.
Apparently keeping it inside isn't going to do you any good, but she will most likely remain oblivious, and you'll get to stay around, supporting her like you always have and always will (or at least plan to). It hurts you, so think it through.
Letting it out could result in you two being happy together forever after, but it could also pineapple things up like you fear, so think it through whether or not you can bare the damage and move on if worse comes to worst.
I don't think being as dedicated as option A would be healthy for you though. At least that's what I chose. So I'm just saying.
Apparently keeping it inside isn't going to do you any good, but she will most likely remain oblivious, and you'll get to stay around, supporting her like you always have and always will (or at least plan to). It hurts you, so think it through.
Letting it out could result in you two being happy together forever after, but it could also pineapple things up like you fear, so think it through whether or not you can bare the damage and move on if worse comes to worst.
I don't think being as dedicated as option A would be healthy for you though. At least that's what I chose. So I'm just saying.