So my fiance is joining the Air Force.

And what if something horrible happens in the next four years?

C'mon now Throws, read this sentence from your burly bear's perspective. With you two being together for six years, I'm sure that you were one of the driving influences behind him joining the airforce. Try to put yourself in his position. While he's out there, he'll be thinking of how getting through all of this will provide a better life for not only him, but for you and baby Throws. Won't it be something amazing when he comes back from Sweden or whatever country we piss off next with the oppurtunity to get himself a rewarding education along with a wedding and house for the both of you?

If you can't afford an education, it could take a lot longer than you'd think to get yourself back on track. My brother is 34 years old and is only now finishing college and deciding what he wants to major in. He's a guy who enjoys life in the city of Minneapolis, but he's a str8 up playa who prefers shuffling through girlfriends rather than settling down with somebody. I thought about this for a while; my bro is one suave motherf(ucker that any woman would want to settle down with, but he's still in school and he's still waiting tables. He can provide for himself and then some, but for a wife a kids? I don't think so, Tim.

I'm going to assume that your loverboy is somewhere around 24 years of age. He'll come back at 29 with the credentials to go wherever he wants. He'll get out of college and land a well-paying job fast; everyone kisses the ass of those that serve for their America. A baby Throws will come eventually, and being able to provide for him/her will no longer be a dream for the father.