So my fiance is joining the Air Force.

What I meant by that was you need to leave that guy. If you haven't gottem married after that many years, you never will be.

We're currently making plans for our wedding. It will be a small affair, since that's all we can afford at the moment, and his auntie offered to let us have the ceremony in her backyard. His dad is offering to cater (hooray Hawaiian food!) I actually love the idea of a small backyard wedding. We can have a huge celebration for the extended family, friends, etc. in a few years and renew our vows or something like that. Planning our wedding is actually one of the few things that I enjoy about him making this decision.

So no, leaving him is not an option.