why does every one hate me?

The forum is not a chatroom. Every post should have at least some significance. Some of your posts, well, don't have that much meaning. Although this is a utopian view of forums, each post should bring something new to the conversation. Your posts don't always do that. I don't hate you for being a bit spammy, or even dislike you. You're a pretty cool guy. Just relax a bit and think about the content of your posts.