2009-07-06, 04:56 AM
I just wanna hear people's views on it..
Like, my brother feels that being g'ay is a choice, and every single g'ay can be straight if they want to, but the way they've been brought up, and the people they are around, means that they want to be g'ay.
I really don't understand how he can think that way. If I came out, then I could blame him, no? But, of course I don't particually want to be g'ay, why would I want to be something millions (billions?) of people find wrong, and people are even killed for it. Why would I want to be the butt (whoops) of millions of jokes worldwide. Why would I never want to have a proper biological family with my partner? If I could, I would be straight, but I can't. I just don't find women sexually attractive.
Which brings me onto another point. When a hot girl walks past, I can say 'phwor shes hot', but according to a few friends of mine, I can't. Because I'm g'ay. Why? I can still tell if a girl/woman is attractive or not. Like one of my friends, he mentions hot guys to me all the time, but I know he's 100% straight. It's the same principal.
And, marriage. I don't see why g'ays can't get married. Why can't two people who love eachother dearly get married just because they're of the same sex? Yes, the tradition is that only a man and a woman gets married, but back when black people were hated, it was a tradition to be nasty to them. IMO, that's nearly the same thing. Times change, get used to it.
Like, my brother feels that being g'ay is a choice, and every single g'ay can be straight if they want to, but the way they've been brought up, and the people they are around, means that they want to be g'ay.
I really don't understand how he can think that way. If I came out, then I could blame him, no? But, of course I don't particually want to be g'ay, why would I want to be something millions (billions?) of people find wrong, and people are even killed for it. Why would I want to be the butt (whoops) of millions of jokes worldwide. Why would I never want to have a proper biological family with my partner? If I could, I would be straight, but I can't. I just don't find women sexually attractive.
Which brings me onto another point. When a hot girl walks past, I can say 'phwor shes hot', but according to a few friends of mine, I can't. Because I'm g'ay. Why? I can still tell if a girl/woman is attractive or not. Like one of my friends, he mentions hot guys to me all the time, but I know he's 100% straight. It's the same principal.
And, marriage. I don't see why g'ays can't get married. Why can't two people who love eachother dearly get married just because they're of the same sex? Yes, the tradition is that only a man and a woman gets married, but back when black people were hated, it was a tradition to be nasty to them. IMO, that's nearly the same thing. Times change, get used to it.