yep... thats why it's a spectrum 
my most pervasive problem at the moment is executive dysfunction, probably different from your most pervasive problem
ji <-- can't even talk in multiple MSN chat windows or she gets confused (can't say anything, can't remember what the topic was about, etc).
(edit: if more than one person chats me, i tend to randomly disappear from one or the other window, and completely forget that was having a conversation with them in the first place. Until there are too many windows and i start closing them, then realising i suddenly ignored the person in that chat, heh.)
could be that i'm a female aspie too
my most pervasive problem at the moment is executive dysfunction, probably different from your most pervasive problem
ji <-- can't even talk in multiple MSN chat windows or she gets confused (can't say anything, can't remember what the topic was about, etc).
(edit: if more than one person chats me, i tend to randomly disappear from one or the other window, and completely forget that was having a conversation with them in the first place. Until there are too many windows and i start closing them, then realising i suddenly ignored the person in that chat, heh.)
could be that i'm a female aspie too