How can the drama/ego/affinity of each server be best described as?

Everyone will think that their server is full of drama, because they see the drama and they remember it, whereas when they don't see the drama, they don't remember anything.

I sort of live in my own bubble and try to be friendly to anyone, though, so I haven't had any problems in my own server (Bera). On the other hand, I'm not really "part of" the high level community (not that I'm too high levelled myself, though - meh), but I think it's worth it to keep the game fun for me to play instead of dealing with aggressive relationships.