2009-03-17, 06:06 PM
myles has a point... injustice happens all the time, it could be worse.
but i still see the value in "setting the record straight," without being vengeful. if you're trying to be "the bigger man" and are instead bothered and stressing about it internally (most of us are NOT humble no matter how much we tell ourselves we are), then it's going to affect your relationship with your friend because you'll still hold a grudge against them and think you're better than your friend. that is not a true solution either.
but i still see the value in "setting the record straight," without being vengeful. if you're trying to be "the bigger man" and are instead bothered and stressing about it internally (most of us are NOT humble no matter how much we tell ourselves we are), then it's going to affect your relationship with your friend because you'll still hold a grudge against them and think you're better than your friend. that is not a true solution either.