2015-05-15, 02:09 AM
Eos Wrote:We've already reached our personal answer, you're trying to resolve a non-existent scenario.
This is the speakeasy, this is an inference test. Heterosexual marriages have had thousands of years to come up with their traditions that define a baseline. Same sex marriages are newer and don't fit into that model of a specific type of ring for him and a specific type of ring for her. Therefore we're curious what the instincts of the average person who's absorbed years of tradition translates that to in this circumstance.
I don't think I entirely see the difference between your marriage and anyone else's though!
Marriage is at its core an affirmation of love between two parties, and a promise that they'll be faithful to each other until the very end.
Tradition is just for decor, the heart of the ceremony will always be something that you decide.
My answer to the question you posited is what I just said, and I was raised roman catholic, and then told by my priest to never come back when he found out that I liked the D.
The rings are a symbol, tradition shouldn't matter because they're supposed to be about the couple.
People always buy something that they like, something that feels right for them, you're over-thinking it.