2014-05-24, 07:34 PM
Grey Wrote:So, I joined OkCupid a few days ago, I'm not sure why, I guess I'm feeling a bit lonely as of late. I feel completely cynical towards the site, but the questions are sure fun to answer.The rejection made sense though if your profile is blank. I'm not sure i'd reply to a person who's profile tells me nothing about them.
Gathered a few friends together during lunch to help me gather up some courage to message this guy, he looked at my profile (which was, at that point, blank) but didn't reply.
Somewhat sad. I don't generally take rejection all that well. Honestly, I don't even know why I'm trying, given that if things go south, I'll probably end up really depressed and inactive and sluggish for a pretty long time... again, and things are finally at a place where I can be happy. But, then again, while things are great, I'll be even more happy.
Sigh, weighing my options.
I've had periods where I've felt lonely and tried setting up an account on sites like that. It gives me a nice ego boost for about 2 weeks before I realize that I still have my whole life to find love. I'd rather be blindsided by it than actively try and seek it out, it takes some of the magic away I guess. Then I go back to being perfectly happy on my own and the thought doesn't cross my mind for maybe another 4 or 5 months. It can be good to get it out of your system sometimes.
Just don't take it too seriously, have fun with it
Quote:I went to the dentist last summer and the dental hygienist thought I was 14, it was sad.On the second day at my new job the guy I was working with asked "So, have you just left school... or..?" and I was like "I finished school 5 years ago". He literally thought I was 16. I also got asked for ID to watch a 16 film when I was 17/18.