2014-04-04, 06:55 AM
SaptaZapta Wrote:She wants to be first in your mind. She expected you to rush right back to her from your trip. You say "I have lots of work". OK. Then it turns out you have time to hang with your friends, two days before you have time for her? That makes her feel like she's not your #1 priority. I know I would not be happy if my boyfriend did that.
Now, if Saturday was decided on because she couldn't make it earlier, that's different. Less rational, though still something I could understand. Like, "if you have time for friends tonight, you could come see me for even a few minutes."
Its a mix of both. When I say I have lots of work, I mean literally there is a lot of work for me to do, and my job required me not to leave campus (it was an on call position, for 2 nights), but tonight I only at the last minute had free time and thought that she would be working (she usually works late on Thursdays). Saturday was decided upon because it worked best for us all. Shes going out with her friends on Friday, and now so am I, Sunday I have work obligations, and even Saturday during the day, I have more work obligations.
She started texting me and it boils down to her feeling like I dont care, and that I dont open up to her, and that she doesnt know how I really feel, which made her feel unimportant. Which is hard for me, because Im a pretty blunt about things. But we are going to work through things. I honestly feel things will work out better after school ends, because she is someone who needs to spend a lot of time with.