2014-04-04, 05:49 AM
Sometimes I feel like my girlfriend doesn't want me to hang out with my friends, even when we (my girlfriend and I) aren't doing anything together.
I go on a school trip and come back to a lot of work to do and we made plans to get dinner on saturday night. But since I told her I was going to hang out a bit with my friends tonight (now last night), she became distant. She snap chatted me telling me she wishes people saw her as important and I tell her shes important to me, she truly is in many ways important to me, and she just says that "you dont realize it do you?". I ask her what, and she just says I have been gone for too long, and I ask her whats wrong and she just says its too much to do over snap chat, so I call her, and now shes not answering. It really frustrates me, because I try to make as much time as I am able to to see her and be with her every week but its hard, and she knows I have a lot that I have to deal with. It also frustrates me that she tells me she feels unloved when I do all these little things for her, and it just feels like she wants more than I am able to give, and she would rather bottle it up than talk to me about it, which I have told her to talk to me if things like this comes up, that it will help us both grow if we were to talk to one another about issues we have.
In the end, I think she is going to breakup with me, and it hurts me because I really do love her, and I feel like the reasons for the breakup are trivial and something that could be worked out...
I go on a school trip and come back to a lot of work to do and we made plans to get dinner on saturday night. But since I told her I was going to hang out a bit with my friends tonight (now last night), she became distant. She snap chatted me telling me she wishes people saw her as important and I tell her shes important to me, she truly is in many ways important to me, and she just says that "you dont realize it do you?". I ask her what, and she just says I have been gone for too long, and I ask her whats wrong and she just says its too much to do over snap chat, so I call her, and now shes not answering. It really frustrates me, because I try to make as much time as I am able to to see her and be with her every week but its hard, and she knows I have a lot that I have to deal with. It also frustrates me that she tells me she feels unloved when I do all these little things for her, and it just feels like she wants more than I am able to give, and she would rather bottle it up than talk to me about it, which I have told her to talk to me if things like this comes up, that it will help us both grow if we were to talk to one another about issues we have.
In the end, I think she is going to breakup with me, and it hurts me because I really do love her, and I feel like the reasons for the breakup are trivial and something that could be worked out...