2013-09-04, 01:21 AM
hypothetical scenario
guy 1 (b) gets back with ex (who he loves), she says she still has feelings for guy 2 © who she left b for originally. c also has feelings for girl but doesn't like long distance. c also has a tendency to say hurtful things but "always makes it better," takes items and money without asking for his own personal needs "but finds a way to get (girl) something if she needs it"
girl spends more time talking to c on the phone than b, and when b goes out of his way to try and call girl, she is either unavailable or unresponsive (also to texts) even after telling b she will be available to talk at said time.
b is wondering if he is wrong to express his concerns of this situation (jealousy) to girl. Girl is going through a tough time - being kicked out of home because her sister is uncomfortable around her roommates in the apartment she rented with them a few months ago. She is having to remodel a room in her (crazy - Alzheimer's? unsure of condition) grandfather's crappy, unkempt, messy house solely for a place to live.
Girl says she can't deal with extra stress from b (boyfriend) and rarely responds to texts on top of not talking on the phone.
girl used to love b when they first started dating. She loved him very much but it was b's first relationship so he messed a few things up and didn't realize what he had until it was gone. Girl loves b now but not nearly as much as before.
Is b being an idiot with love clouding his judgement? b really really really really wants to be with said girl.
b does not find interest in anyone else in the year since he has known girl
All hypothetical of course. Forrrrrrrr a course paper. yuuuup.
guy 1 (b) gets back with ex (who he loves), she says she still has feelings for guy 2 © who she left b for originally. c also has feelings for girl but doesn't like long distance. c also has a tendency to say hurtful things but "always makes it better," takes items and money without asking for his own personal needs "but finds a way to get (girl) something if she needs it"
girl spends more time talking to c on the phone than b, and when b goes out of his way to try and call girl, she is either unavailable or unresponsive (also to texts) even after telling b she will be available to talk at said time.
b is wondering if he is wrong to express his concerns of this situation (jealousy) to girl. Girl is going through a tough time - being kicked out of home because her sister is uncomfortable around her roommates in the apartment she rented with them a few months ago. She is having to remodel a room in her (crazy - Alzheimer's? unsure of condition) grandfather's crappy, unkempt, messy house solely for a place to live.
Girl says she can't deal with extra stress from b (boyfriend) and rarely responds to texts on top of not talking on the phone.
girl used to love b when they first started dating. She loved him very much but it was b's first relationship so he messed a few things up and didn't realize what he had until it was gone. Girl loves b now but not nearly as much as before.
Is b being an idiot with love clouding his judgement? b really really really really wants to be with said girl.
b does not find interest in anyone else in the year since he has known girl
All hypothetical of course. Forrrrrrrr a course paper. yuuuup.