After nearly ten years together, my husband and I are now separated. AMA

Throes, m'dear, I know it may seem corny and cliche, but I love the novel and film adaptation of Eat, Pray, Love, and think you should absolutely check them out when you get the chance. I think they're wonderful tools for reflection and growing one's self-love, and I often revisit them in times of personal doubt and insecurity. And who knows? Perhaps some version of an Eat, Pray, Love-esque trip is exactly what you need right now to sort things out.

Regardless, to further underscore what others have said before, we love you here and are a community made better by your presence. Never hesitate to ask for anything (and as such, I'm glad you made this thread!).