2013-05-16, 04:24 AM
Mandalay Wrote:I had a really pomegranatety day.
I'm a useless friend who can't even comfort her own best friend. I've been checking up on her all week to comfort her and the one time I don't is when it snowballs. I stepped away from talking to my friend for just one hour so I could get my dumb Maplestory boss run over with then come back and in that hour, she went and did something so stupid. And I found out because her friend was Facebook messaging me through her phone what happened.
I even warn her not to do this, and not do that because I've done it too and she still does everything.
I'm worried sick about my friend and I want to cry.
I don't know if this is going to be comforting since whatever she did must have hurt a lot, but in the end it was her choice to do what you told her not to do and she did it in spite of you checking up on her the entire week. As painful as it is to watch someone suffer the same thing you once did, it is necessary for some to learn from experience and you already did your best to keep her company hoping to prevent it.
A horrible friend wouldn't even feel bad about this and abandon friends in need. Don't blame yourself for what she did of her free will because it's already done, do what you can to support her now.