2013-05-05, 08:11 PM
Mandalay Wrote:Good news: I confessed.
Bad news: Someone else did too. At the same time.
Even worse news: She's my friend.
Even more worse news: I'm not supposed to have known that.
It was also the first time I've ever confessed to anyone, so I stumbled a lot.
He didn't directly friend zone me, but at the same time he didn't directly answer it either. "Give me some time to soak it in."
What does that even mean...? I'm so confused.
Datum. That's some complicated jojo! I would say follow the advice thats been given. He needs time. Hell, even straight forward confessions (without a second girl involved) can rack a guy and he needs some time.
As for the "brocode" things, personally, I would say don't think about that. From personal experience, I thought it would affect me and my relationship, but really, I did what I wanted to do, and went for it. I will say though, that depending on how you and your ex split and why may affect him.
Best of luck to you!