"Breaks" in a relationship?

I'm currently going through this with my 3 year old relationship, and it's killing me. I can sympathize with you, your specifics may differ. Mine is simply reevaluating life and not sure if she suddenly friendzoned me at some point. I haven't had a real conversation with her since march. I have no advice, I'm honestly plum out of idea's myself. My best advice is let it ride, I did the opposite and made it worse because I was so in the dark about it. You let something that claims to love you go, they'll prove it by coming back. That's the position I'm in right now.