Am I wrong for feeling this way?

Also, if moving out is not a goal they want you working towards, try something else. Perhaps you're saving up for an advanced degree or something of the sort, education that can improve your earning prospects?

Actually that bit solved it for me

I don't see that I can close it, if you can that be great.

Thanks guys I really just need a back and forth to kind of a get a grasp of my scenario, my dad is intimidating for me to talk too lol.