No More Mr. Nice Guy

Do you wear contacts? I think you'd look really good with them.

Otherwise I think you just need some style basics, like truly knowing your sizes (fun fact: I often find most guys wearing clothes 1-2 sizes too big, or cuts of apparel that are billowy, untailored, and unflattering on their body type; just these quick changes alone do a world of improvement for one's basic style). Though you're not that bad, Ray.

I am not a fan of poking things into my eyes in the morning and then poking them out of my eyes at night.