buccal herpes.

Well I spoke to him about it and he felt insulted and thought I was implying he was diseased. Then I asked this other guy I used to see if he had it and he told me he did but I never caught it. I guess(I honestly shouldn't be guessing) during the latent stage it's not contagious. If I kiss him and then he gets a lesion two days later ( I read in the first articles that it's present up to 2 days before you see visible symptoms) then I'm fucked I suppose. I talked to my mother about it and she told me that she got cold sores once in her life (I remember that time). My brother gets it four times a year. My mom told me it's not the end of the world if I get it. But I still want to be careful. I don't know how to like say "can i thoroughly inspect your lips with a microscope to make sure its safe to kiss you". The guy I'm going to see (if he still decides to come see me) told me he used to get cold sores when kissing his ex boyfriend that smoked.

Also getting tested for HIV with this guy because he has had unprotected intercourse before. I want to make sure with pomegranate. I don't want to take risks with my life anymore.