2012-11-29, 10:12 PM
hello, the problem may be that you are wanting to achieve the outcome of getting over whatever problems you are having, while the process might be more important
i also had and have been having problems similar to yours. a bit depressed, dont know what to do with my life, have absolutely no regularity or motivation in my life, barely any loved ones, friends, social networks to support me. for some months, i have quit school and really have done nothing progressive.
support programs? may sound weird, but i have been trying not to get any help...
when you are having the problems, all may seem impossible, just until u get a small grasp of motivation, hope, et.c
the quote "it will come to you" is sorta true, and theres a difference between "literally doing nothing with your life" and "doing nothing with your life." in the latter, u may be doing something, such as playing games, listening to music, et.c, and as un progressive as that sounds, it can give you motivation.
as for me, i have found some motivation in music and religion, though that does not mean i want to work as a musician or have a religious job. i dont even go to church these days cause im so lazy.
look for things that you do! again, whatever outcomes that it will bring is not important at the moment. motivation does not have to be something like going to a 3rd world country and seeing that your life is much better so u should be happy.... that does not make sense. you are not happy, and that should not be associated with how much wealth you have.
i also had and have been having problems similar to yours. a bit depressed, dont know what to do with my life, have absolutely no regularity or motivation in my life, barely any loved ones, friends, social networks to support me. for some months, i have quit school and really have done nothing progressive.
support programs? may sound weird, but i have been trying not to get any help...
when you are having the problems, all may seem impossible, just until u get a small grasp of motivation, hope, et.c
the quote "it will come to you" is sorta true, and theres a difference between "literally doing nothing with your life" and "doing nothing with your life." in the latter, u may be doing something, such as playing games, listening to music, et.c, and as un progressive as that sounds, it can give you motivation.
as for me, i have found some motivation in music and religion, though that does not mean i want to work as a musician or have a religious job. i dont even go to church these days cause im so lazy.
look for things that you do! again, whatever outcomes that it will bring is not important at the moment. motivation does not have to be something like going to a 3rd world country and seeing that your life is much better so u should be happy.... that does not make sense. you are not happy, and that should not be associated with how much wealth you have.