2012-11-07, 12:09 PM
Have you ever considered that you're making things out to be things they're not because it's what YOU want?
He literally just broke up with his boyfriend and you ask him on a date. That's a pretty big red flag there. Sure, you were there for him, but you had other an ulterior motive to do so. Not saying you wouldn't have been there for him if you weren't attracted to him, but it's pretty obvious what your intentions were.
Give him space. Be a friend. Dan's already mentioned it, but I'll mention it again: be wary, for even if it all works out and you two end up a couple, you may find yourself just being a rebound and I think that's going to hurt more in the long run for both of you.
I've tried to stay out of this for as long as I can to see if you'd figure it out on your own, but you're doing something similar to what I've experienced in the past and I'm honestly tired of watching you flounder about. Get mad or whatever, I don't really care. Consider it tough love.
He literally just broke up with his boyfriend and you ask him on a date. That's a pretty big red flag there. Sure, you were there for him, but you had other an ulterior motive to do so. Not saying you wouldn't have been there for him if you weren't attracted to him, but it's pretty obvious what your intentions were.
Give him space. Be a friend. Dan's already mentioned it, but I'll mention it again: be wary, for even if it all works out and you two end up a couple, you may find yourself just being a rebound and I think that's going to hurt more in the long run for both of you.
I've tried to stay out of this for as long as I can to see if you'd figure it out on your own, but you're doing something similar to what I've experienced in the past and I'm honestly tired of watching you flounder about. Get mad or whatever, I don't really care. Consider it tough love.