Iron Man 3(April 2013)

I'm hearing the story will involve some more Extremis, and the part where he telepathically controls the glove indicates that the suit grabbing Pepper is him moving it unconsciously in his sleep.

I think the story with the comic books (which the movies are loosely based off of) was that the Extremis "virus" was basically a replica of the super soldier serum by using nanotechnology. When Tony injects himself with it (after being beaten to all hell), he goes comatose for like 2 days and insta heals, but instead of super-solider stuff, he programs the nano tech to give him telepathic control over the interwebs and stuff, so he's essentially linked wirelessly to his suit and every computer in the world. I do wonder how they're going to explain that though seeing as the marvel movies tend to try to keep up with the realism as much as possible (with the exception of Thor because magic = science). Pretty cool storyline though. Wonder how they're going to explain the Mandarin though, seeing as his 10 rings are supposed to be magical powers.