2012-10-14, 02:53 PM
ImagineAll Wrote:I'm painfully aware of how pointless arguing with someone like yourself is,
It's hard to contradict the "correct".
ImagineAll Wrote:but I'm just going to make this one post and leave it at that. If anything, you're the one remaining ignorant. By all means, respond to this post and tell everyone how you "ripped it to shreds" and "owned" me, but you'll be hard-pressed to find me caring what you have to say (P.S. in case you were wondering @Locked, he's one of the people who cares about appearing cool online).
Yeah, cool for a bunch of southperricans. I'm sorry but if I was that superficial I wouldn't bothering arguing and asking for social acceptance of the community. Thus would avoid touchy topics involing homosexuality. I'm sorry this is the only article you read, I'm sorry that you can't see past the word bully and not see the personality of the person. Remain in your blissful ignorant perspective.
Just to further piss on your parade, Locked and I actually get along, we have very similar opinions, so looking for support would require you to do some necessary, research.
ImagineAll Wrote:You guys are all so quick to jump to these predetermined opinions of her that you jump to conclusions without knowing all of the facts (note: I'm not claiming to know all of them either). The point that I'm trying to make is that you guys do not know this girl. You don't know whether or not she had been abused as a child, lived with parents that beat her, etc. There are so many variables that need to be taken into consideration when you call a girl a "slut."
I'm sorry but I don't recall using that derogative or share that opinion. I don't think suicide is a cowards way out, thus I haven't spoken specifically on that. I believe that the "bullying" is being overexaggerated based on the fact her choices essentially antagonized and put it on herself. You commited suicide after she got beat up for starting an unnecessary conflict. She slept with him to spite the girlfriend, needless to say, that's a pretty highschool method of attacking in "girls world". She was not bullied for simply being topless, she used drugs, she drank, and she probably made worse choices. With these facts I can get a good idea of what position she was in. Especially when she had to relocate school's 4 times. She didn't learn her lessons in fact she multiplied them. If you want to make a thread or an article, it should be confronting not the over exaggerated bullying, but the fact her decisions to rely on her body/involvement in illegal substances may have put her in a pretty piss poor position.
Her lifestyle is irrelevant, whether bullying is right or wrong, is irrelevant, it's how you act that is in fact, relevant. There's your problem, you're looking for reasons for people like me, who see this, as a way to make the victim look like the bad guy. This, to me is irrelevant. This to me, doesn't matter, not because I'm cold, not because I'm "evil", it's because she repeated actions which gave negative results. She took this persona and amplified it, when retaliated she took her own life. Should I feel bad for someone who antagonizes then gets her just desserts on her inconsiderate behavior? In general no, should I suddenly flip that entire perspective around because she commited suicide? Seems more like you're fickle. Suicide or death rather does not grant a clean slate.
ImagineAll Wrote:It's not like she was just going out and having sex with the guy cause she wanted to have sex, she went over because she needed a friend and he took advantage of her when she was clearly at a low point in her life. As if that's totally not Plan A in a guy getting laid strategy.
The problem with your assumption is it doesn't match this girl's personality. She wasn't a quiet loner who couldn't reach out to people. If you actually read what the students say, she got around a lot and developed being the practice girl. She switched schools because she was harrassed about the topless pictures, by a single guy. This happened once. It didn't happen four goddamn times. She got help by proffesionals, although it didn't do much. Her personality is clearly attention grabbing using her body, and she got direspected for it.
So how do you get this innocent persona?
ImagineAll Wrote:What you choose to ascertain from that video is your own, but don't be so hasty to label someone a slut because you think they're deserving of getting their ass kicked, or worse, dying.
....That's why you read more than one website, read more than one opinion and filter out the bollocks. But clearly you haven't read any my posts otherwise you wouldn't be quoting me saying "DONT CALL HER A SL`UT".
So I'm glad your "single last post" was a flimsy slap.

