Mannerisms vs. Sexuality

You can't put people into boxes.

but science loves boxes

My friend considers himself a homophobic gay. he hates camp or effeminate guys, but he's a bit of a strange example, because he does have some really feminine traits, which you wouldn't notice if you just met him. Spend some time with him though, and he gets gayer and gayer. He's a weird mix of mannerisms and opinions.

your friend and I have a lot in common