2012-10-13, 06:38 PM
I think a big problem here is slut-shaming, particularly when it comes to females.
If you want to have sex for pleasure with more than one person, I'm fine as long as you don't drag me into it. I'm fine with other people being okay to be in polygamous relationships if they all consent [although legally speaking, it's a clusterpineapple.] If you can respect me for wanting to be in a monogamous relationship, then I will respect you for not wanting to be in one.
So yes, if Todd was okay with it, but the guy's girlfriend was not, that's a big problem and Todd shouldn't have done that. I don't remember the article well enough atm to say anything about any of the guy(s) involved. I'm a little sick and tired of hearing how females should save themselves for special guys and that's the only way they can have self-respect and dignity for themselves.
And now I'm wondering why I'm posting because I'm sure most people will reply with ~*~ BIOTRUTHS ~*~ and more female/slut/victim bashing. o well, just another unpopular opinion around here.
If you want to have sex for pleasure with more than one person, I'm fine as long as you don't drag me into it. I'm fine with other people being okay to be in polygamous relationships if they all consent [although legally speaking, it's a clusterpineapple.] If you can respect me for wanting to be in a monogamous relationship, then I will respect you for not wanting to be in one.
So yes, if Todd was okay with it, but the guy's girlfriend was not, that's a big problem and Todd shouldn't have done that. I don't remember the article well enough atm to say anything about any of the guy(s) involved. I'm a little sick and tired of hearing how females should save themselves for special guys and that's the only way they can have self-respect and dignity for themselves.
And now I'm wondering why I'm posting because I'm sure most people will reply with ~*~ BIOTRUTHS ~*~ and more female/slut/victim bashing. o well, just another unpopular opinion around here.