Mannerisms vs. Sexuality

Your post is obviously exaggerated but it's because masculine gay men are harder to spot than effeminate gay men. Of course it's going to seem like there's only effeminate men because they are the ones who openly show their sexuality. Masculine men are usually low-key because they just don't have the mannerisms of the stereotypical gay man.

I probably come off as flamboyant here but in reality I'm not very effeminate at all so no one suspects otherwise. I don't try to hide it, I just don't showcase it.