2012-10-08, 10:17 AM
Razmos Wrote:I think he's noticing something, but I think he might be trying to ignore it. He just gets sorta quiet about these things, or he'll purposefully change the subject back to a guy i've been seeing, or word things carefully so they don't sound too complimentary.
He's definitely happy with his boyfriend, which is distressing. But mostly, the way he describes how he is with his boyfriend is actually the same as how me and him hang out. He's even brought me to the same places, wanted to show me the same films etc.
Seems like he is feeling out the situation, maybe he knows he has a big decision to make in the near/future. If anything I would just continue to be good friends with him, you never know. For all we know his boyfriend back home is having doubts about things, and if worst comes to worst your friend will need someone to be there for him. I say do whatever you can to make sure that you're that someone.