2012-10-08, 03:10 AM
Ryosuke Wrote:I wonder if he's noticing the obvious chemistry you two have together as much as you are? Are him and his boyfriend really happy together?I think he's noticing something, but I think he might be trying to ignore it. He just gets sorta quiet about these things, or he'll purposefully change the subject back to a guy i've been seeing, or word things carefully so they don't sound too complimentary.
He's definitely happy with his boyfriend, which is distressing. But mostly, the way he describes how he is with his boyfriend is actually the same as how me and him hang out. He's even brought me to the same places, wanted to show me the same films etc.
Clashex Wrote:I am in an almost identical situation to you right now. It's as if you want to be bold and do something to grab their focus and attention, but risk pineappleing up the relationship if it doesn't go your way.I know exactly how you feel. I have a really great friendship here, but the potential for it to be something better is just too great to ignore. I've never spent this much time with one person. We had a whole "group dynamic" at first, but it's ended up being just the two of us most of the time, and with all the time we've spent together the feelings sorta blindsided me.
I'm scared. I haven't felt so in love in a very long time, but I don't want to strain such an amazing friendship because I'm lonely and require something intimate to compensate for my lack of a social life.
Is the person you like in a relationship too? or do you just not want to the change the friendly relationship you have?