Let me explain to you kiddies why the "assholes" always get the hot chicks.

You are a very rare male then. Most guys want the "model" type. To bad, that's not realistic. I care about looks, but thats not whats number 1 to me. There is so much more to a person than looks.

i'm a very rare male too, i like chubby girls, although i focus more on the personality. however, i don't have a "perfect girl" model to follow, 'cause i've been attracted to different body types and personalities.

although, i know what i don't like... i don't like girls that can't spell simple words, i don't like girls who can't carry an intelligent conversation and i don't like girls without a sense of humor.

ps: you could say i'm a sarcastic pimento and that's what attracts most women on first sight.

They guys around where I live are shallow assholes. They want "models" and if you don't fit that, then you are worthless and nothing. Yay Michigan /sarcasm.

Most guys I know don't really want that. They'd rather have a more realistic girl.. an average Jane?

they dont have to be drop dead gorgeous.
But jesus ffs comeon.
Atleast show you put a bit of effort into your image.
I have a line yanno?

conclusion: dont be an pimento, dont be a nice guy, be both.

p.s - it will also help alittle if you're hot and/or if you're rich.

be a nice pimento?

girls I know aren't interested in bad boys. heck, they don't even want to get into a relationship until after college. :/

Being an ass won't getyou anywhere if you're skinny and stuff.

I'm a skinny, slacker. Girls wnat the big, buff bad boys, the jocks so to speak.

I'm not an pimento because my ex dumped me because I teased her a lot...she got fed up adn screamed "YOU'RE A JACK ASS IM DONE WITH YOU"...yea

Well, to be honest the "nice guys" just want the company of a woman for the most part. It's the assholes that are in it for the sex.

sorry to break it to ya but even "nice guys" are in it for the sex.
it might not seem that way. But in the end they are all looking
for the samething.

sorry to break it to ya but even "nice guys" are in it for the sex.
it might not seem that way. But in the end they are all looking
for the samething.

Actually, sex is the ultimate goal in any relationship, the thing is either you get there or not before you break up before then, besides, he said FOR MOST PART. I think I just countered you tere. I did it with my bf the second day we met for the first time after 2 months of online relationship. It's still great, he isn't in for it at all and I took him by suprise.

I am a girl, I have never been attracted to a badass in real life (drama/movie/anime excluded), I think they are stupid, and I am proud that I am a girl, I refuse to be treated that way in any situation. I don't want to kiss up to a guy if he doesn't care about me. I pick even amoung the nice guys. A guy that's too nice can be walked over, and a guy that's too bad is just a loser in my eyes. You just need to be yourself, and someone's bound to be attracted to you that way.

I disagree. I act chivalrous and I get more poon than my pimento friends. Then again they do relationships and I do flings but w.e

in high school and college relationships are different. Girls see themselves as thru other peoples eyes. Thats why they care so much about their appearance, what purse they have shoes to put on what accessories would be appropriate for the evening, etc. Boys are just like accessories, do they want a nice guy as a bf in High school? Depends really on the girl. If shes in to assholes you really think that 'hot chick' would be a good gf in the first place? take it from me, the anonymous dude from connecticut whose had the same first gf since hs for 4.5 years... ( yeh yeh ). Its not about looks, its about how she treats you. Dont EVER let her make you do pumpernickel you dont want to do unless theres good reason for it. If she thinks she has control over the relationship she may walk all over you. But in my case, i got lucky.

and shes hot

But my brother speaks the truth. Women dress themsleves up for the other women. Thats why they want the high profile, big star, jock, pimento etc etc bf. So she can parade around with him and say to the other women "look who I got"

People need to realize that young people thee days are in a relationship for mainly one thing. Sex. I say cut the middleman. Dont put a title on it, dont tie yourselves up with emotional strings. Just have fun and live for the moment.

Note: This only matters to you high school lovesick puppies. I know that most women aged 18+ aren't this stupid.

Oh never mind, I was going to say something but you covered it. =]

Have fun bickering everyone, because I don't really have anything to add now. =]

They guys around where I live are shallow assholes. They want "models" and if you don't fit that, then you are worthless and nothing. Yay Michigan /sarcasm.

That pretty much sums up most of my friends, i'm not like them though. We live in Michigan too

The animal instinct, if I remember correctly, is to have the children fathered by the tough macho pimento, and raised by the nicer man. Since we don't live in caves anymore, it doesn't quite work like that.

In my experience, they want excitement. An pimento acts in ways unpredictable to the girl, which makes her want him. A nicer guy acts in ways predictable, and resultantly she may not want him.

However, when the girls start settling down, they (typically) want the nicer man, except if they're idiots. Past a certain point a girl gets sick of random hook-ups in bars and whatnot; and not all of them want a wifebeater to marry and raise their children.

I want the nice guy. I want to be treated well and not like a piece of meat.

Women treat men like they are caged barbarians and always want sex (when women want sex just as much as we do).
Men treat women like they are objects for sex.
The people who see beyond that are the ones truly destined for romance.
I'm also irritated by the fact that when women are talking with their women friends, they spill everything about their relationship that the guy doesn't exactly want everyone to know.

Women treat men like they are caged barbarians and always want sex (when women want sex just as much as we do).
Men treat women like they are objects for sex.
The people who see beyond that are the ones truly destined for romance.
I'm also irritated by the fact that when women are talking with their women friends, they spill everything about their relationship that the guy doesn't exactly want everyone to know.

^This

The animal instinct, if I remember correctly, is to have the children fathered by the tough macho pimento, and raised by the nicer man. Since we don't live in caves anymore, it doesn't quite work like that.

In my experience, they want excitement. An pimento acts in ways unpredictable to the girl, which makes her want him. A nicer guy acts in ways predictable, and resultantly she may not want him.

However, when the girls start settling down, they (typically) want the nicer man, except if they're idiots. Past a certain point a girl gets sick of random hook-ups in bars and whatnot; and not all of them want a wifebeater to marry and raise their children.

I must be rare breed, I never hang out at pubs and clubs, heck, I've never been to one in my life. Maybe because I don't try to make myself stand out, so I never grabbed attention of the badasses. Not like I want attention from them in the first place. Somewhere in me has the desire for excitment, but so far I have only ever dated nicer guys, and they treat me like a princess.

I demand equal standing in any form of relationship that I am in >=]