Advice on my bestfriend's gf.

[COLOR="Red"]Is so annoying.

It's his first, so I guess he is just learning, but still...

We were supposed to meet today for some quick homework. I find him, an hour later than we were supposed to meet (he never showed and I got mad) giggling with his gf on a couch somewheres. I couldn't get mad in front of them, so I just played along like nothing happened.

Also, she insists on friending me on gchat, fb, skype, everything. So annoying. I think she is dimwitted (It took me 20 mins to explain what mallets are used for in playing the Marimba and she doesn't understand the concept of an inside joke).

Plus, I can't say no, my bf would get mad... And yet she insists on talking to me at the most inconvenient times. I didn't want to deal with her at all, and then she goes and starts asking all these things about homework through social networking stuff. I just tell her, "Isn't your bf supposed to help you?" But he's busy doing nothing and annoying me by not picking up her calls. Besides, I can only see him for some hours of the day, and she can have him the rest of the day.

I did send him an e-mail saying that was not cool of what he did today...

I just would like some advice on how to deal with his oppressive girl friend. I can't tell her to gtfo, even though i would love too...[/COLOR]

[COLOR="Red"]Is so annoying.

It's his first, so I guess he is just learning, but still...

We were supposed to meet today for some quick homework. I find him, an hour later than we were supposed to meet (he never showed and I got mad) giggling with his gf on a couch somewheres. I couldn't get mad in front of them, so I just played along like nothing happened.

Also, she insists on friending me on gchat, fb, skype, everything. So annoying. I think she is dimwitted (It took me 20 mins to explain what mallets are used for in playing the Marimba and she doesn't understand the concept of an inside joke).

Plus, I can't say no, my bf would get mad... And yet she insists on talking to me at the most inconvenient times. I didn't want to deal with her at all, and then she goes and starts asking all these things about homework through social networking stuff. I just tell her, "Isn't your bf supposed to help you?" But he's busy doing nothing and annoying me by not picking up her calls. Besides, I can only see him for some hours of the day, and she can have him the rest of the day.

I did send him an e-mail saying that was not cool of what he did today...

I just would like some advice on how to deal with his oppressive girl friend. I can't tell her to gtfo, even though i would love too...[/COLOR]

Explain to her what a swinger is in a relationship.

Then ask her if she's down.

Explain to her what a swinger is in a relationship.

Then ask her if she's down.

But stick it in her pooper.
No babies

Heh.

Tell her that she should try asking her boyfriend or something, since you are busy with our own issues, such as homework, work, etc. Make up excuses, but be polite about it. Give hints that you're 'busy' or don't feel like talking to her. If she's "dumb", then just say it out straight-forward. I know some people have problems saying things out. But I don't.

Actually, if I was being annoying, one of my friends would tell me something along the lines of "You're being fucking annoying today, shut up.", etc. Point being, sometimes, even honesty is the best resolution, despite it being 'crude'. So just lie and give her hints and say crap like "Ah, I see. However, I'm rather busy today" [yada yada yada], I do that all the time, and whoever I don't feel like associating with, ends up leaving me alone.

I know this one girl that has a crush on me, and expects me to visit her every week on a Thursday, and I told her I can't because I'm always working, or busy with school work. It works. Just be polite about it.

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I just would like some advice on how to deal with his oppressive girl friend. I can't tell her to gtfo, even though i would love too...[/COLOR]

She's using you, dimwitted or not. And to be honest, just becuase he's dating her doesn't mean you have to like her. All it means is you shouldn't insult her to his face.

Put your MSN settings on Away or Busy (do something similar for Skype and such) and simply don't reply when she tries to get you into this $hit. You may have to set your privacy settings to only allow people on your BL to contact you, and take her off the list. Tell your friend (politely) that it's his job as his boyfriend to provide her with conversation and emotional support, and while you value his friendship you don't really want to deal with his gf. She's not really being nice to you, so what's he going to say? If you say it right, he'll let it slide, and she'll go away, because much as b!tches whine about it, ignoring her will make her go away.

Tell her straight that you don't really feel like talking to her. Tell your friend beforehand that you would rather not have a relationship with his girlfriend and that it isn't cool that he's ditching you like an ass for her. Your friend just needs to wise up and realize that he'll lose a friendship over his first fling if he doesn't stop being an idiot.

Tell her straight that you don't really feel like talking to her. Tell your friend beforehand that you would rather not have a relationship with his girlfriend and that it isn't cool that he's ditching you like an ass for her. Your friend just needs to wise up and realize that he'll lose a friendship over his first fling if he doesn't stop being an idiot.

Taht's basically telling him to choose between teh OP and his gf... he'll choose his gf because that's not a choice you ask for.

As long as she stays out of the OP's face who cares if she dates the friend?

Tell her to piss off and remember this... bros before hoes. If he's your true friend he'll accept it.

Tell her to piss off and remember this... bros before hoes. If he's your true friend he'll accept it.

lol

He's your best friend, dood. If it's his first girlfriend, it won't last long anyway; what's the point of cockblocking him? Let him have his fun for a couple of weeks. He'll learn how to balance time between his relationships as time goes by.

[COLOR="Red"]He did seem genuienly sorry after I sent him that e-mail. He said that it wouldn't happen like that again. So, I guess he learned a lesson.

I hope...[/COLOR]

Explain to her what a swinger is in a relationship.

Then ask her if she's down.

Ohhhhh Yeaaahhhhhhh

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That said he has to learn from experience; you don't want to be the that broke them up.

I have a similar friend like this one, except my firends gf's is plain ol' retarded.
Simply tell him that a girl shouldn't get inbetween you guys' relationship. I mean for Christ sake, just because you have a new sex mate doesn't mean you have to abandon all of your other friends and stick to his/her ass crack all day everyday.
Soon he'll just tire out and probably dump him. (God forbid) But just man up and tell that hoe the bussiniss.

This thread needs some proper meditation, with my earth bending abilities I shall balance the scale.

Taht's basically telling him to choose between teh OP and his gf... he'll choose his gf because that's not a choice you ask for.

As long as she stays out of the OP's face who cares if she dates the friend?

Him telling his friend he doesn't like his girlfriend does not equal him asking to choose between the two.

For example: I absolutely hate my girlfriends best friend. I have complained about her hairy arms on here before actually, but any way, I don't tell my girlfriend to choose between the two of us. I made it known I dislike her friend, and after her friend tried to talk to me about all of it we just worked out that we really didn't like each other.

Now when they hang out I just ask to not be included or asked into any of it, and it works out great. When they're together I don't have to be asked to tag along and help with pomegranate, and when my girlfriend and I are together if the friend tries to steal her from me I tell her to pineapple off and we're done.

It's an awesome love-hate relationship between the two of us.