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SP, I need help. D: - Five Second Pose - 2008-08-22
Well, I like this girl. (No, this isn't about getting her to liek me, it's way past that) I liked her for a while, like, four months, then finally got the guts to ask her to grad, she said no. This was last June, and I still haven't gotten over her.
How do I?... And also, in the event I DO somehow get in a relationship (lol) doesn't that mean I'd be clingy?...
SP, I need help. D: - Strawberries - 2008-08-22
Don't think of her very much? Find something to occupy yourself with and just overall don't think about her much. I remember some of those moments, but I'm over it. D: & I don't think you'd be clingy, well it really depends to be honest.
Question though, are you hopeless romantic by any chance? x:
SP, I need help. D: - Five Second Pose - 2008-08-22
Hopeless romantic? What's that mean?
SP, I need help. D: - Strawberries - 2008-08-22
Something along the lines of always wanting a good relationship that you'd think would last somewhat forever and you'd dream and imagine all of the romantic stuff you'd do with that person. Like passionate love.
I may be off though. >.>
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I liked what you said below at first though.
"shitpineapple"
SP, I need help. D: - aznegglover - 2008-08-22
Strawberries Wrote:Something along the lines of always wanting a good relationship that you'd think would last somewhat forever and you'd dream and imagine all of the romantic stuff you'd do with that person. Like passionate love.That sounds like me .__.
I may be off though. >.>
SP, I need help. D: - Five Second Pose - 2008-08-22
Osh- yes. Is there something wrong with me ._.
EDIT : And it's not like I'll ever see her again, I go to a different school like half an hour away.
SP, I need help. D: - Haiku - 2008-08-22
There's nothing wrong with being that way, naw. It's not exactly easy though because even though there are plenty of hopeless romantics in the world, it can be hard to find one to love & be loved by.. but that's hard for anyone. If things like that were easy, we'd run out of things to spend our lives doing. They make the most thoughtful significant others, too.
As for getting over someone, time does it basically. Whether that be finding feelings for another girl, doing things to occupy your time, or just plain living your life. No worries, it'll pass.
SP, I need help. D: - Five Second Pose - 2008-08-22
It's been 14 months, I'm beginning to think I'll be stuck like this for life.
SP, I need help. D: - Strawberries - 2008-08-22
Like Haiku said, there's nothing wrong with being one, because there's actually a countless amount (maybe I'm exaggerating, but it's somewhat true). I, myself is one.
If you still see her & you can't help it, well then it's mostly time that's gonna be the one that's going to make you get over her at some point. One of my relationships took a whole year to get over her.. <.< But there was also a lot of the times where I didn't think of her. What changed mine was that I eventually found someone new, but that didn't work out either so I didn't fall into such ways of dwelling anymore and gets over things way easier now. :/
I still think about certain people a lot though.
SP, I need help. D: - Five Second Pose - 2008-08-22
We've had about 5 chance encounters over the past year. >__>
SP, I need help. D: - Haiku - 2008-08-22
That's understandable. >: I had a crush on some guy for like 3 years & every year he was in my last period class. We almost never spoke, lol. It took a long time for that go away and I have no idea why. xD Now that I look back on it we wouldn't have worked anyways. xd
There's nothing wrong with having feelings as long as you don't do something obsessive like stalking her. That kinda thing is crossing the line, otherwise you're just a guy who'd like to be with a girl, lol. Nothing wrong with that.
SP, I need help. D: - Arcanum - 2008-08-22
show her your pokemans
SP, I need help. D: - xDae - 2008-08-22
Rayquaza2233 Wrote:Well, I like this girl. (No, this isn't about getting her to liek me, it's way past that) I liked her for a while, like, four months, then finally got the guts to ask her to grad, she said no. This was last June, and I still haven't gotten over her.No means no. Move on, there are plently more out there
Im assuming a few things:
1. You are young
2. You've never had a gf
What you need to understand is that people who have serious relationships early in life are just kidding themselves. Hardly anyone marries their high school sweetheart anymore. What I cant stand are the high school idiots who go out for a week and they wont stop saying "omg i luv joo!!! nuuuuu I luv jo0 moar!!!!!!!!"
Its fucking pathetic
Back on topic. You cant keep pestering her about it. She wont say yes no matter how many times you ask, and if you bother her enough times she wont even want to be friends anymore
Arcanum Wrote:show her your pokemansI ahve no idea why but this started making me laugh and now I cant stop
SP, I need help. D: - SuGaRnSp1C3 - 2008-08-22
Rayquaza2233 Wrote:Well, I like this girl. (No, this isn't about getting her to liek me, it's way past that) I liked her for a while, like, four months, then finally got the guts to ask her to grad, she said no. This was last June, and I still haven't gotten over her.
Find another girl that sparks your interest I guess. It's pretty set in stone when we say 'no' lol. You won't be clingy if you get into another relationship if your feelings are true for the girl that you're with. Don't worry about it, you'll be ok
SP, I need help. D: - Five Second Pose - 2008-08-22
xDae Wrote:No means no. Move on, there are plently more out there
Easier said than done.
Quote:Im assuming a few things:
1. You are young
2. You've never had a gf
Both true.
Quote:What you need to understand is that people who have serious relationships early in life are just kidding themselves. Hardly anyone marries their high school sweetheart anymore. What I cant stand are the high school idiots who go out for a week and they wont stop saying "omg i luv joo!!! nuuuuu I luv jo0 moar!!!!!!!!"
Its pineappleing pathetic
Agreed.
Quote:Back on topic. You cant keep pestering her about it. She wont say yes no matter how many times you ask, and if you bother her enough times she wont even want to be friends anymore
I've only asked her once, and that was 14 months ago. We used to be pretty good friends, but I went and fuckd that up.
SP, I need help. D: - Dusk - 2008-08-23
Meet more people. Look into other potential relationships. The more time you spend with other people, the easier it is to let go of old feelings. Speaking from experience here.