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omigosh what do i do - sonotanalt - 2010-04-16
I have fallen in love with my best friend. I dont know how it happened. She is the first girl I have ever liked, and i cant stop thinking about her. Literally my whole live is thinking about her now.
The thing is, im 15, and she is the first girl I have ever liked. She thinks Im not even into girls yet. Heck, she wasnt into guys a few months back. But now she met a dude, they have dated, and on sunday, they will be officially BF/GF And I found out that if i told her earlier, she would have dated me. She doesnt even know I like girls, much less her. What should I do?
omigosh what do i do - Locked - 2010-04-16
I think teenage love is overrated. I'd just move on and hope for the best with her and her boyfriend.
omigosh what do i do - butterfλi - 2010-04-16
First loves never last.
omigosh what do i do - sonotanalt - 2010-04-16
I know this. but I AM GOING CRAZY! I cant think about anything besides her, i check my email compulsively for texts. Its tearing me apart...
omigosh what do i do - Link - 2010-04-16
sonotanalt Wrote:I know this. but I AM GOING CRAZY! I cant think about anything besides her, i check my email compulsively for texts. Its tearing me apart...
You're 15. You'll live. You're only going through hormonal changes you're not used to yet.
omigosh what do i do - sonotanalt - 2010-04-16
how long will this last... I cant take too much of this...
omigosh what do i do - Link - 2010-04-16
sonotanalt Wrote:how long will this last... I cant take too much of this...
Only a few years. You should be able to learn how to control your emotions within a year or two. Eventually you'll balance out.
omigosh what do i do - sonotanalt - 2010-04-16
ShiKage Wrote:Only a few years. You should be able to learn how to control your emotions within a year or two. Eventually you'll balance out.
I really hope thats sarcasm. I cant take another week of this crap.... Im gonna die..
omigosh what do i do - Link - 2010-04-16
sonotanalt Wrote:I really hope thats sarcasm. I cant take another week of this crap.... Im gonna die..
Bottle it up or ignore it. Your choice.
omigosh what do i do - Pikamemnon - 2010-04-16
Be happy for your friend, at least if he turns out to be a jerk u can give her a shoulder to cry on.
omigosh what do i do - Corn - 2010-04-16
sonotanalt Wrote:I really hope thats sarcasm. I cant take another week of this crap.... Im gonna die..
A billion other teenagers can suck it up.
omigosh what do i do - butterfλi - 2010-04-16
Pikamemnon Wrote:if he turns out to be a jerk u can give her a shoulder to cry on.
Yeah this works too. Rebound is nice sometimes.
omigosh what do i do - sonotanalt - 2010-04-16
Pikamemnon Wrote:Be happy for your friend, at least if he turns out to be a jerk u can give her a shoulder to cry on.
I am. Im not trying to steal her from what i hear is a nice dude.
@claw idc. Im going crazy...
omigosh what do i do - Corn - 2010-04-16
sonotanalt Wrote:@claw idc. Im going crazy...
Seriously. You're going to laugh at yourself in a couple of years.
omigosh what do i do - sonotanalt - 2010-04-16
Ive laughed at so many things I have done. So what. I cant take this anymore...
omigosh what do i do - Erebus - 2010-04-16
idk... wack off a few times i suppose...
omigosh what do i do - Link - 2010-04-16
sonotanalt Wrote:Ive laughed at so many things I have done. So what. I cant take this anymore...
Then do yourself in. If you can't force yourself to stop, you have serious problems. You can't force someone else to like you that way, so the only thing you can do is surpress your feelings. You're not really at much liberty to do anything BUT surpress your feelings in the current state anyway.
omigosh what do i do - sonotanalt - 2010-04-16
ShiKage Wrote:Then do yourself in. If you can't force yourself to stop, you have serious problems. You can't force someone else to like you that way, so the only thing you can do is surpress your feelings. You're not really at much liberty to do anything BUT surpress your feelings in the current state anyway.
do myself in? She let it slip once that she would have dated me if " I was into that gross dating stuff"...
Erebus Wrote:idk... wack off a few times i suppose...
Ever since this started I cant. I end up just thinking about her. I just think. Thats it. This isnt physical lust.
omigosh what do i do - Corn - 2010-04-16
sonotanalt Wrote:Thats it. This isnt physical lust.
I loled.
If you really frigging care, then wait for them to break up. She'll think you're ready by then. Plus, you want her to be frigging happy. She's happy right now with that guy.
omigosh what do i do - sonotanalt - 2010-04-16
ClawofBeta Wrote:If you really frigging care, then wait for them to break up. She'll think you're ready by then. Plus, you want her to be frigging happy. She's happy right now with that guy.
this is what I am doing. This is not a "how do i make a girl break up with an ideal boyfriend so i can have her" thread. Its a what in the world am i supposed to do in the meantime thread. I am going crazy.
And as for lust. I ideally wouldnt want to. It can have some severe consequences and that could make both of us unhappy if we did it. supposing we were together.