Sarah Wrote:Didn't you post an angry dome thread about your teeth rotting out of your mouth? Pretty sure that's your problem.

Corn Wrote:He also posted one of these threads before I believe.

aslemn Wrote:Well, you can't really be like that, man. There's no perfect person for you, someone without anything wrong. And if you keep trying to find someone like that, you gotta be alone for a very long time.
It sometimes work like this, you try to find the perfect girl for your whole life, and when you finally find it, who grants that she'll look at you in the same way?

And if she does, then you gotta be some lucky ass dude. You see a lot of couples that seem to be perfect to each other, but they aren't. Life's not about what i see a lot of girls in my class saying to each other, that they want a man that is lovely, mature, beautiful, nice, smart, and kind to her parents and that likes everything they do; there's no copy of yourself, or someone that fulfills all your wishes.

You just have to meet someone, that like EVERYONE else, has flaws and qualities, but that her qualities are enough to make her flaws look irrelevant. You can't erase those defects, nor ignore them or pretend they never existed, you just love her more than you hate her problems.

That's why so many relationships end, because once you are in one, you'll try to ignore all her problems, and if you don't fight back, after the effect goes away, those problems will be much bigger than they are.

I, actually, prefer to have female friends than girlfriends, because i'm not the kind of guy that texts her any and everytime with a lovely message, that says i love you about a thousand times, that can give priority to her over getting out with my friends, for calling her, or for living my life towards someone. If you want an advice, NEVER date a friend if you don't feel anything other than just friendship for her.

My last relationship was a complete piece of crap because of that and because of the other reasons i've said above. She expected me to be someone that i am not, she always came up with a different voice to me, saying i love you everytime, calling me and getting mad when i didn't answer her, when i didn't text her back. She once got mad because two weeks before, my brother's friends that are also mine, were asked to come over our house to play some Rock Band, i've told her about it, she wanted to go to the mall with me and i told her i couldn't, she said there was no problem, later, she came to me acting weird and not answering properly, and when asked, she said "I didn't like the fact they are more important than me".

I've broke up in that day exactly because of that, it's not that she was less important, but there's no reason i would cancel everything that i've planned since two weeks before, because in that morning, she wanted to do something different. I couldn't stand those things that she has done, how she acted, and specially how she DIDN'T know me, because expecting me to change into another person was NOT GOING TO HAPPEN.

TL; DR That's it. You won't find someone that is perfect to you and that has no flaws, you have to find someone that completes you, and that has enough qualities to make her flaws smaller than what you feel for her. If you want a perfect girl in just the appearences, then you aren't looking for a girlfriend. And if you can't get in a relationship, or just don't want one of those, like me, you can just have your female friends.

I prefer to have them for many reasons, for the fact that i'm not obligated to act differently, that i just need to be who i am to them.
And man, having them as your friends doesn't mean you can't have something with them, you can date them without being in a relationship, anything, you just need to find someone that also wants that, and it's not as hard as finding someone perfect. You can just have anything you want, just don't judge them so early like that.

But if you really want to have a relationship, then judging the others with so much criteria is not going to lead you anywhere.

Blake Wrote:Oh, and brush your god damn teeth.

Manu Wrote:Something similar happens to me, I'm 19, never had a girlfriend. I think that one of the reasons is that I'm an expert in getting friendzoned, with the last 3 girls that I really really liked it happened, we became friends and then if I tried to make a move it'd be weird, and on the occasions I did they said we were friends and they liked it. I have high standards too though, I don't look for the "exotic" model or anything though, I just want a girl who looks cute, if it weren't because of this I'd probably have a girlfriend right now, because a girl told me she liked me but I didn't like her back, and I must say that at least 70% of that denial was because of her looks, and the rest was because she turned into me and got herself friendzoned.

Satellite Wrote:Wrong again.

Random_Overlord Wrote:Brunette
bright Blue or brown eyes
Size C+ jugs
IQ of 110+
Fit and healthy
Free spirited
Lives life to the fullest
Lots of hobbies
Good sense of humour
Beautiful
Nice
Flirty

Someone who'd make you feel glad you didn't choose to commit suicide in highschool.

Corn Wrote:Ah, I was wrong, but you posted a thread about a chick asking you out to prom but your rejecting them.

http://www.southperry.net/showthread.php?t=50127

I think I'm also confusing you with Random_Overlord for some reason. Remember this quote?



Anyways Satellite you might as well look at yourself. Do you deserve a hot chick that's cute and awesome (aka are YOU hot and cute and awesome?)

BTW we're all throwing daggers at you because we're all nerdy virgins that play video games that would kill for a chance for a girl to ask us out, no matter really how pretty they are.

Corn Wrote:BTW we're all throwing daggers at you because we're all nerdy virgins that play video games that would kill for a chance for a girl to ask us out, no matter really how pretty they are.

KhainiWest Wrote:Ya know, I'm surprised I didn't ask this earlier but why do you want one? Is it a social image issue? A need to try out sex? Both are pretty...well you'll be dissapointed. I mean good relationships, rather, fun ones, are with friends, not with flings, and sex is overated.

KhainiWest Wrote:Speak for yourself douche

FrozNlite Wrote:This. Also, Corn, I think the real issue here is also you saying "that would kill for a chance for a girl to ask us out." Here's a concept: grow a pair and do the asking. You might be surprised.

Corn Wrote:BTW we're all throwing daggers at you because we're all nerdy virgins that play video games that would kill for a chance for a girl to ask us out, no matter really how pretty they are.