Way too open. - Printable Version

Way too open. - Printable Version

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Way too open. - GMSInfighter - 2008-12-16

Eh, I kind of get frustrated when my girlfriend is too open to her friends about her personal stuff.

I don't know why she even does it, but it just annoys the heck out of me. She'll tell people stuff that she shouldn't even tell her parents.

How do I get her to stop without her getting mad at me? Tongue

Way too open. - Huey - 2008-12-16

Depends on what topics are talked about.

Personally, I prefer talking to my close friends over my parents. If anything, you should sit down and talk to her and voice your opinion in hopes of getting your message across. In a nice way of course.

Way too open. - GMSInfighter - 2008-12-16

She talks about like what she wears to sleep, when she's horny and stupid stuffy >_>

It's irritating.

Way too open. - Huey - 2008-12-16

Maybe what she wears to sleep I understand, but "horny" is kinda... I mean, it's alright (in my mind) to have a educating sex talk, but saying "I'm horny" is kinda out of line. =/ She should understand that not every guy wants their girlfriend to be that open.

Way too open. - IsaacGS - 2008-12-16

*is currently wondering if this was really intended for the funhouse*

Well, whenever she makes this declaration, offer to take her to your bedroom. I'm sure she'll stop yelling it out, or not. win/win either way :p

Way too open. - Loose - 2008-12-16

Maybe it's just a phase?

Way too open. - GMSInfighter - 2008-12-16

Loose Wrote:Maybe it's just a phase?

This is what I was thinking. Immature stage >_>

Isaac Wrote:Well, whenever she makes this declaration, offer to take her to your bedroom. I'm sure she'll stop yelling it out, or not. win/win either way :p

Are you typing what I think your typing? XD

Way too open. - Kawasari Mimoto - 2008-12-16

Usually, mature girls are usually rather shy about that stuff, and won't discuss it with their friends.. also, they won't act like they're horny or crave sex either, even to their own boyfriend. It's usually the quiet and calm ones (that likes to tease you...) that ends up most likely being best in bed. *;]* @ my gf

Way too open. - Hazzy - 2008-12-16

I like Isaac's idea. ;o
Or you can tell her she's annoying (in a less-blunt way) OR play her game. Do what she does to her friends to your friends. ;D

Way too open. - madanthony - 2008-12-16

Could be worse. Welcome Week at my uni, I was walking down the main stretch and could hear a group of girls talking about their yeast infections from half a block away.

Count your blessings, man.

Actual help: If you do decide to confront it, make sure to use lots of 'I's not 'you's. Should help reduce any anger.

I.e.
I get uncomfortable when you do blah blah blah.
instead of
You have this funny habit of blah blah blah.

Way too open. - Five Second Pose - 2008-12-16

Who talks about yeast infections? Forget LOUDLY, who talks about them AT ALL?

Way too open. - Eriko - 2008-12-17

obviously she wants to get laid by someone that will or not be you

Way too open. - Throes - 2008-12-17

Rayquaza2233 Wrote:Who talks about yeast infections? Forget LOUDLY, who talks about them AT ALL?

Yeast infections pineappleing suck. If it feels like there's a colony of fire ants having a party in my no-no zone, you think that's something I want to talk to my mom about? No. I'm gonna talk to my girlfriends and ask them whether I should use Monistat 1 or Monistat 7.

And I don't get what the big deal is. If guys are so open to talk about fapping and porn, what makes you think girls are so different? If you feel like you must talk to her about this, listen to madanthony.

madanthony Wrote:Actual help: If you do decide to confront it, make sure to use lots of 'I's not 'you's. Should help reduce any anger.

Way too open. - Mark - 2008-12-17

Kasuhitomi Wrote:Usually, mature girls are usually rather shy about that stuff, and won't discuss it with their friends.. also, they won't act like they're horny or crave sex either, even to their own boyfriend. It's usually the quiet and calm ones (that likes to tease you...) that ends up most likely being best in bed. *;]* @ my gf

Your girlfriend is a virgin. Sorry, bro. She doesn't know sh'it about sex. Kiss

But srsly, sometimes you gotta bust out the belt and slap a ho. Let her know who wears the pants, and who has to take them off.

Throws Wrote:Yeast infections pineappleing suck. If it feels like there's a colony of fire ants having a party in my no-no zone, you think that's something I want to talk to my mom about? No. I'm gonna talk to my girlfriends and ask them whether I should use Monistat 1 or Monistat 7.

Sorry, but I f'ucking LOL'd.

Way too open. - Huey - 2008-12-17

Kasuhitomi Wrote:Usually, mature girls are usually rather shy about that stuff, and won't discuss it with their friends.. also, they won't act like they're horny or crave sex either, even to their own boyfriend. It's usually the quiet and calm ones (that likes to tease you...) that ends up most likely being best in bed. *;]* @ my gf

I don't think there's anything wrong personally discussing that stuff with girls. Of course, you talk to girls that you know well, not just acquaintances. As long as you approach it in a "mature" way, it's alright. (Of course, screaming 'I'm horny' is out of line.) Who else would listen to us? Our mothers? Our boyfriends? Or should we just keep it to ourselves and shun ourselves in darkness when there is nothing wrong talking about something natural?

If it's immature for girls, are guys who talk about sex deemed as immature too?

And talking about yeast infections is just nasty, btw. XD

Way too open. - Throes - 2008-12-17

Opeth Wrote:But srsly, sometimes you gotta bust out the belt and slap a ho. Let her know who wears the pants, and who has to take them off.

If you seriously think that guys are the ones with the power in the bedroom, you are mistaken, good sir. Wink

Opeth Wrote:Sorry, but I f'ucking LOL'd.

I am glad to have brought a bit of laughter into your life.

Huey Wrote:And talking about yeast infections is just nasty, btw.

Yes. Yes it is.

Cottage cheese.

Way too open. - Mark - 2008-12-17

Throws Wrote:Yes. Yes it is.

Cottage cheese.

Boner ruined.

Way too open. - GMSInfighter - 2008-12-17

Eriko Wrote:obviously she wants to get laid by someone that will or not be you

First of all, were 15, so yeah.

and Thanks guys for the comments?

I believe Opeth was the most helpful and Throws was the least Biggrin

Way too open. - Kawasari Mimoto - 2008-12-17

Opeth Wrote:Your girlfriend is a virgin. Sorry, bro. She doesn't know sh'it about sex.

But srsly, sometimes you gotta bust out the belt and slap a ho. Let her know who wears the pants, and who has to take them of

She knows quite a LOT, good-sir! You don't know sh`it about my girlfriend, kthxMarkusGTFO. ;]

PS: Yes, my gf knows DAMN-WELL I wear the pants in the relationship irl, though my character's appearance/outfit on MS says opposite, f3. -lol@femaleNL- Rolleyes

Way too open. - Mark - 2008-12-17

Kasuhitomi Wrote:She knows quite a LOT, good-sir! You don't know sh`it about my girlfriend, kthxMarkusGTFO. ;]

PS: Yes, my gf knows DAMN-WELL I wear the pants in the relationship irl, though my character's appearance/outfit on MS says opposite, f3. -lol@femaleNL-